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kim
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
The site is run horribly - Staff just as bad
The site is run horribly without any support at all If you make a post you will receive numerous replies from creeps asking for nudes or webcam shows If you do not do as they ask they will report your account and then fetlife staff will make the same demands asking you to upload custom made photos claiming they are safe I was banned for the reason someone reported your photos are not yours when I did not even have a photo posted to my account At the same time they have verified accounts of people claiming to be women but their entire profile is an advertisement for a gangbang website and all of their photos are famous porn stars
Fluke Skywokker
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
Definitely the worst app
Definitely the worst app I ve tried to use Lots of people who message when they are 500 km away unless you pay than your messages are restricted to less that 1 per day sent a single message 48 hrs ago and still can t reply to the person or send any other messages Don t wast your time and certainly don t waste your money
London London
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
Full of broke losers
The site is a entrapment zone The site has a lot of content related to BDSM lifestyle however if you ask a guy to pay for your time they shut you account down This site is for broke losers and dumb women who are just thirsty to be with a man I believe law enforcement is on the site as well
anon
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
I ve used this app for 6 months
I ve used this app for 6 months If that isn t enough time to develop a proper experience of an app then I don t know what is I ve talked with probably a hundred different women and every single conversation ended the same way blackmail or begging for money I haven t met a single person not one single legitimate person who actually wanted to pursue a kinky relationship You re better off looking for someone in real life and then seeing if they ll fullfil your desires because let s face it just about every dating service out there especially those sexually based are about 70 needy men 29 9999 scammers and 0 00001 real women
Sven
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
I ve been on FetLife for over a decade
I ve been on FetLife for over a decade It used to be a site for learning exploring and the occasional kinky meet up It s gone from that to a racist content stealing shitzhole site The caretakers allow racism and vitriol and should be sued into oblivion for allowing stolen content I ve reported several users with valid reports of stolen content and they do absolutely nothing to protect the people creating the content Avoid FetLife F these c u n t s
Todd Welsh
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
Site refused to take down dead friends
Site refused to take down dead friends profile she literally died after a brain operation It s mostly abandoned profiles and onlyfans accounts full of a very toxic community The search feature sucks you literally have to look through a sea of people who aren t your preference
Chris F
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
Fetlifes decline
FetLife used to be such a good site but has steadily gone down hill until it recently reached rock bottom If you enjoy having your profile dictated by other members backed up by admin go ahead and use the site but if not you would be well advised to seek alternative and much better run sites of which there are plenty
Denise Dragounova
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
As with all bdsm websites
As with all bdsm websites it attracts a mental issue men with trauma low intelligence men imbeciles having no clue what bdsm is Many think its an easy access to sex or their victims who let them to be abused A LOT of completely deluded men I spent 3 years on it and never seen a normal mentally stable and intelligent man there
Anon
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
Terrible sausage fest
Terrible sausage fest Mainly sellers timewasters people that grill you but can t hold a conversation or reply in 1-2 words Nobody is interested in doing anything offline regardless of all govt restrictions being lifted and most 90 of the population being vaccinated where I live Shoutout to the few genuine people on here but you guys are like unicorns Group mods get way too much power and have made it a terrible experience recently Some kinkshaming going on as well which is truly disgraceful Ended up just feeling worse about myself whenever I logged back in
Roger Melo
6730 reviews
N/A
1 year ago
Libellous Act
Fetlife allows people to make a libellous post against you Doesn t respect your privacy Allows defamation without evidence Stay away from this site If I could give them 0 rating I would They allow people to moderate groups who have no experience