Theattractiveman Reviews

Great team of professional coaches

Great team of professional coaches I learned a lot from them

I recently finished a boot camp with

I recently finished a boot camp with the attractiveman and I feel like a completely different man the strategies thought by Matt and team affects your mindset and pushes you in the right direction which is really important to become a multi dimensional man which is what every woman craving in a man

Very helpful for dating-related anxiety

This review is for the TAM bootcamp in LA with Lynn It s been about a year since my last relationship ended and I ve had a lot of trouble getting back into dating and romance Over this weekend with Lynn s prompting advice I 1 Told two girls at nightclubs that they were sexy as redacted to their apparent delight 2 Chatted a random girl up while using a ridiculous fake Appalachian accent-- the goal being to get rejected because you re doing something absurd-- after which she unexpectedly gave me her number I FAILED to get REJECTED I find this extremely funny 3 made out with a cute heavily-tattooed girl that I met in a nightclub I haven t made out with anyone for like a year so that was awesome The weekend was basically a nonstop series of doing things that felt scary and risky on a gut level but which often turned out to be very positive experiences obviously with lots of variability-- some girls won t be into it-- but it was never intensely negative the worst that happens is a girl is like nah and rolls out I expect the other guys at the bootcamp would agree with me that the main difficult part is actually forcing yourself to do the things since even though Lynn will tell you explicitly what to do you personally still have to do it I myself used anti-anxiety medication to make this part easier though others did not that I am aware of and this was very much on my own initiative not suggested by the coaches themselves How rewarding you find the bootcamps is I think directly proportional to how much you re able to make yourself do the things the coaches are asking of you Entirely worth the sticker price for guys with lots of dating-related social anxieties I think the bootcamp model has a lot to recommend it it s significantly easier to make headway on this stuff when 1 a bunch of guys around you are doing the same thing and 2 you have a coach whose explicit goal is to recalibrate your gut-level intuitions around how you can and should express attraction I haven t really sampled the dating coach market much so can t say how this compares to other such services But I do know that this bootcamp is probably the most headway I ve made on pushing through the bundle of dating-related anxieties I ve carted around since adolescence I ve never approached random women in public and nor have I made out with someone at a nightclub prior to this weekend I also don t want to oversell it after the bootcamp it s not like I no longer have these anxieties But I do have memories of overcoming them and of positive experiences occurring as a result which is a critical first step I am at the least certainly shelling out money to get more of these bootcamps since as with any exposure therapy it s going to be maximally beneficial when repeated I also appreciate that one of the TAM coaches is a woman since that gives me a lot of confidence that I m not being asked to express myself in a way that will be scary or alienating to the girls I m speaking to which was one of my top concerns in starting the program In general I feel the coaches advocate a very honest and ethical approach to both dating and approaching women in public

Best investment and decision I have ever made

Best investment and decision I have ever made in my life I struggled with confidence around women as far back as I can remember I tried so many things on my own hanging out with guys that were good with women online dating books videos podcasts anything you can think of I tried it but nothing worked When I was 30 years old I finally made the decision to research dating coaches to see what kind of help I could get I didn t think anything like this even existed but I figured why not The Attractive Man came up in my search and I decided to book in a breakthrough session with one of the coaches What they had to offer was exactly what I needed Feedback in person coaching a structure to follow guidance texting help wing men online dating profile reviews everything that every guy struggles when it comes to women and dating they offered it I was a little hesitant to spending the money but I knew this was the answer and if I just have the kind of guidance and feedback I need then I will get the results Fast forward to two years later and I have achieved the type of results with women and dating that I and countless other men have only dreamed of In the last two years I have gone out with hundreds of women and have had sex with over 100 of them I can t even tell you how great it feels to finally be in control of my dating life and having the choice of the type of women I want and not feel like I am scratching and clawing or feeling confused or frustrated in my dating life anymore It is a great feeling knowing when you can have the type of women that you want and when you can sex whenever you want It s not about getting lucky or just taking whatever you can get anymore I feel like I have been given a brand new life where even if I am faced with challenges it is not something that holds me back or destroys my self-esteem anymore Life changing

I was a model for boot camp

I was a model for boot camp it was great experience it s amazing to see how fast guys was learning and getting better in communication I would definitely recommend it to everyone who needs to improve their communication skills

Life changing

Life changing No other programs are as comprehensive or as honesty based This is the only choice

This experience was great because of the Comfort Zone challenges

The experience was great because of the coaching enthusiasm and genuine commitment Matt had to ensuring each participant was pushed and went for goals well outside their comfort zone Matt was always accessible gave feedback and facilitated the week very well There was a good flow to the week and the challenges kept getting harder Matt being in field with us was good The model work and feedback after each exercise was very beneficial Each model would give a slightly different opinion and it was good to have the feedback straight after doing the exercise not just waiting until the end Moving across two locations was good As a company the feedback is accurate and given in a way that can be understood It is good how the feedback is given directly not with any maybe or doubt but given in a way that the recipient can take it or drop it Much better than vague unclear and contradictory feed back As you develop and come up with new challenges it like how the coaches can give more Tailored feedback to assist personal growth as you push through ceilings I like how the coaches give you their techniques learnings and share with you without holding back in what worked for them and how they do certain things which allows you to adopt a formulae that works and Taylor it for yourself Very positive phrase what was good about it and what could have been better about it

Game changer

Extremely well run and organized Matt and his team have this all dialed in to really help you identify your barriers and break through Highly recommend